| -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ILLUSTRATED FASHION GLOSSARY The world of wedding gowns has a language of its own, and the more you understand, the easier it will be to find your dream dress. Here's a glossary of styles and fabrics so you know what to ask for when you get to the store. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- DRESS SILHOUETTES Ballgown A natural, basque or dropped waistline and very full skirt. Princess Multiple, fitted, vertical panels extending in an A-line from the bust or shoulders to the hem, with no defined waistline. Empire A high waist that starts just beneath a fitted bodice with a slim or A-line skirt. Sheath A narrow long-line form-fitting style, also referred to as a column gown. Mermaid A body-hugging style with a skirt that flares at or just below the knee. NECKLINES Bateau or Boat Follows a straight line from shoulder to shoulder, covering the collarbone; offers a subtle variation on the Sabrina neckline. Scoop A rounded, low neckline, dipping from the shoulders to just above the bustline. Halter Fastens at the back of the neck, leaving the shoulders and back bare. Square A half-square or rectangular neckline. Jewel A rounded neckline that encircles the base of the neck. Strapless Strapless is exactly that: no straps or sleeves. A strapless neckline is most often shown as a straight line above the bust; designers also sometimes show a sweetheart strapless, with curved lines above the bust. Portrait Wraps around the tips of the shoulders to "frame" the face. Sweetheart Begins two inches inside the shoulder-line and dips to a heart shape at the bustline. Queen Anne High-standing collar at the back of the neck that curves down to a sweetheart front. Wedding Band Collar A high-necked, fitted, standing collar. Sabrina Extends from shoulder to shoulder, curving slightly down below the collarbone. SLEEVES Balloon Very large poufed sleeve extending from the shoulder to as far as the wrist. Gothic Extra-long, sheer sleeves, typically of chiffon, that flow from the shoulders to well below the hands; the sleeves are split at the elbow for ease of movement. Bell Narrow at the top, the sleeve flares in a bell shape at its bottom edge. Juliet A long sleeve with a poufed top and fitted lower arm. Bishop Softly gathered at the shoulders and full to the elbow, then fitted all the way down to the cuffs. Leg-Of-Mutton Full and rounded from the shoulder to just above the elbow, tapering to a more fitted sleeve from the forearm to the wrist. Cap Very short, fitted sleeve that just covers the shoulder. Poet A fitted sleeve that is narrow from the shoulder to the elbow and then flares out. Illusion Made of sheer, very fine net, often beaded, embroidered or appliqued with lace. Pouf A short, full, gathered sleeve; can be worn on or off the shoulder. Emma Similar to a cap, but shirred and slightly poufed Tulip A set-in sleeve with overlapping fabric that curves into a petal-like shape. Fitted Point A long sleeve with little or no fullness that falls to a point over the top of the hand Gauntlet Detachable lace or fabric that covers the forearm and wrist. WAISTLINES Asymmetrical Begins at the natural waistline and angles down to one side. Hi-Lo A rounded, inverted waistline, the highest point of which rests at the center of the waist, then curves down to the sides. Basque A continuation of the bodice that falls below the natural waistline with pointed or rounded detail. Inverted Basque An inverted-V waistline, the point of which rests at the center of the waist, with straight lines extending diagonally from the center to the sides. Dropped Falls below the natural waistline; may have points or rounded detail. Natural A straight line that sits at your natural waist, or the smallest part of your waist just above your hips. A natural waistline above an A-line skirt is a flattering look for many body types. Empire Begins just below the bustline. SKIRT DETAILS Bustle A gathering of fabric (may include the train) at the back waistline of the gown. Peplum Short skirt addition sewn onto the bodice of a dress or jacket. Flounce A wide piece of fabric or lace, gathered and attached at the hem. Tulip Overlapping skirt panels that resemble petals of a tulip (also known as a petal skirt). Pannier Gathered fabric draped over the hips. Tiered Layered panels of fabric that fall from the waist to the hem in varying lengths. BODICE DETAILS Corset A period-style bodice that typically features boning sewn in for support and structure. Corsets are sometimes lace-up at the back or sides and are a good option for a bride seeking a "waist-cinching" effect. Wrap Rather than a smooth front, a wrapped bodice features fabric that wraps around the body from the back or sides and is buttoned or tied in front. While some wraps do secure the bodice in back, most are purely for decoration. Shirring or Ruching Fabric is tightly gathered into two or more parallel rows, resulting in a textural effect. Shirring is typically vertical, while ruching is horizontal. Pleated Parallel folds of fabric that have been pressed and either stitched or steamed into place. Pleats are a good option for brides seeking to emphasize their upper body, but may not be an ideal choice for full-figured brides. HEADPIECES Hairpins/Hair Sticks Jeweled bobby-pin-style ornaments that can be inserted in the hair, singly or in groups (great with an updo). Pillbox A round, structured, brimless hat worn on the top of the head. Half Hat A small hat covering half or less of the crown. Profile A floral comb worn asymmetrically on one side of the head and adorned with lace, pearls or crystals. Halo A fabric-and-wire band that circles the forehead (may be decorated with pearls, sequins or flowers). Snood Netting (may be decorated with pearls, sequins or flowers) that covers the hair (usually in a chignon), worn at the nape of the neck. Juliet Cap A small cap that hugs the back of the head. Tiara Ornamental crown of pearls, crystals, rhinestones or lace worn on top of the head. Mantilla Lace-trimmed veiling that frames the face. Can be worn on its own, or placed over or under a tiara. Wreath A circle of flowers that sits above the crown of the head or lower, encircling the forehead. Picture Hat A wide-brimmed hat, usually decorated with lace, pearls or sequins. VEILS Ballet or Waltz Length Falls to the ankles. Chapel Length Falls 2 1/2 yards from the headpiece. Birdcage Stiff, wide-mesh veil pinned to the crown of the head, covering the face and ears to just below the chin. Fingertip Length Touches the fingertips when the arms are held straight at the sides. Blusher A short, single veil worn over a longer veil, this covers the bride's face as she enters the ceremony, and is pushed back afterward. Fly-Away Multiple layers that brush the shoulders, usually worn with an informal dress. Cascade Several layers of veiling in varying lengths. After the ceremony, the longer layers can be removed, leaving a short, full veil. Pouf Short, gathered veiling attached to a headpiece, usually worn with an informal dress. Cathedral Length Falls 3 1/2 yards from the headpiece, usually worn with a cathedral train. Wreath A circle of flowers that sits above the crown of the head or lower, encircling the forehead. LACE Alencon A delicate floral or leaf design on a fine-net background, outlined with heavy threads to define the pattern and add more dimension. Lyon An intricate, ornamental design delicately stitched onto a net background; the pattern is outlined in silk or cotton. Battenberg A heavy lace made with patterns of linen braid and tape connected with decorative linen stitching. Point D'espirit Oval dots woven in a pattern on net fabric. Chantilly A web-like floral pattern outlined with silk threads on a lace background; soft to the touch. Schiffli Intricate floral pattern (similar to Alencon lace but lighter) embroidered directly onto the gown. Guipure A heavy lace designed to show large patterns over a coarse-mesh background. Venise Heavy floral or leaf pattern in needlepoint, with motifs connected in lines. DRESS LENGTHS Street Hemline falls to just cover the knee. Ballerina Hemline falls to just above the ankles. Intermission or Hi-Lo Hemline falls to the mid-calf in front, floor-length in back. Floor Hemline falls 1/2 to 1 1/2 inches from the floor. Tea Hemline falls to the lower part of the calf. TRAINS Sweep A short train that barely sweeps the floor. Extended or Royal Cathedral Extends 3 yards from the back of the waist. Court Extends 1 yard from the back of the waist. Obi Sash A short train, tied in a flat butterfly bow at the waist, that barely sweeps the floor. Chapel Extends 1 1/3 yards from the back of the waist. Watteau A train attached to the shoulders of the gown. Cathedral Extends 2 1/2 yards from the back of the waist. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- HOW TO FLATTER YOUR FIGURE Finding the perfect gown style is easy when you know what looks best on your body. Whether you're pear-shaped or petite, top-heavy or tall, wearing the right cut for your figure can highlight your best features and downplay those you're concerned about. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The Triangle (small on top, heavier on the bottom) The key here is to balance your proportions. Broaden and emphasize your top half with full-sleeve treatments, padded shoulders or poufed sleeves that extend your shoulder line, and a textured bodice accented with lace overlays, appliques and beadwork. Elongated bodices and skirts with controlled fullness will emphasize your waist and de-emphasize your hip area. Avoid set-in sleeves and narrow shoulders, skirts with side panels or excess fullness, and body-hugging sheaths. The Inverted Triangle (fuller on top, narrow hips) In order to de-emphasize your shoulder area and give more width to your lower body, look for gowns with minimal shoulder details, simple sleeves, moderate padding, and natural shoulder lines. Simple bodices with minimal accents will draw less attention to your top. For better overall proportion, wear a full skirt or a style with skirt details such as peplums, bustles, sashes and bows. Avoid gowns with full sleeves, slim, straight skirts, empire waistlines and plunging necklines. The Rectangle (nearly equal bust and hips, minimal waist definition) To create the illusion of curves, look for full, voluminous skirts and jewel or bateau necklines or wide collars. Horizontal detailing will draw the eye across the torso and combat vertical body lines, and oversized shoulders and sleeves will add width to your top and shape to your overall appearance. Avoid slim silhouettes or gowns in soft, clingy fabrics, which will only make you appear thin and narrow. The Hourglass (small waist, full hips and bust) To maximize your curves and maintain balance, look for gowns with simple, classic lines like sheaths and mermaid styles-too much detailing can make you look heavier than you really are. Show off your shoulders with off-the-shoulder sleeves, V- necklines and strapless dresses. Avoid gowns with very full or ruffled skirts, poufed sleeves, highly detailed bodices and high necklines that cover the shoulder area and minimize the bust. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- CAMOUFLAGING CONCERNS -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Petite figures are lengthened in controlled-but-full skirts with minimal detail. Basque waistlines, simple sleeves, modestly detailed shoulders, vertical pleating and A-line or princess silhouettes elongate the torso and add height. For slim petites, the sheath or mermaid style is ideal. Full figures look best in fitted, V-neck bodices and dropped-V, or basque, waistlines. Full skirts camouflage hips and thighs, while styling details around the neckline, such as beading on a sheer yoke, draw the eye upward. Long or three-quarter sleeves slenderize arms; avoid strapless or sleeveless gowns, which only emphasize upper-arm fullness. Opt for dresses where the fabric drapes gracefully to the floor instead of ones that are form-fitting. Disguise a thick waist with an empire waistline. Princess-style dresses elongate a short waist and lengthen the torso. Long waists look shorter when the waistline is cut above the torso, as on a basque-waist or empire-style gown. To slim heavy hips, try an A-line skirt or a full-but-controlled skirt without bows, flounces or ruffles. A full bust is flattered in an off-the-shoulder, portrait, scoop or V-neckline with minimal detailing. Small busts look larger when they are accentuated with intricate details, such as beadwork, sequins and on-the-shoulder necklines. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- MEASURING TIPS -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Customarily your bridal gown size will have not much in common with your regular dress size. We don't know how or when this practice started, but bridal gowns generally run smaller by one or two sizes. For this reason, it is imperative that you review each designer's size chart and choose the size that fits your largest measurement. Before you place your order, have your measurements taken and compare them to the size chart from the manufacturer. If your measurements fall right on the edge of two sizes, order the larger size. Therefore, if your bust equals a size 14, your waist a size 12 and your hips a 12, you would order the size 14 gown. Remember, it is easier to take a dress in than it is to let it out or to try to lose that last inch! Now, you may be wondering about how to have your measurements taken. We recommend you have the professional seamstress who will alter your gown take your measurements. DO NOT ATTEMPT TO TAKE YOUR OWN MEASUREMENTS - THEY WILL BE WRONG! You can also have someone else take them if you follow the instructions listed below. When you measure, wear shoes with a heel height similar to what you plan to wear on your wedding day, wear a similar bra or bustier and, if you have one laying around, wear a similar petticoat. Wearing all of these will help ensure your measurements are correct. If you do not have all of the accessories, just make sure add a couple of inches to your measurements to accommodate them. The designer's size charts do not generally have all of these measurements, but it is a good idea to take them all and familiarize yourself with them: Bust Take the tape around your back and bring it across the fullest part of the breast. Your arms should be relaxed, down at your sides. Waist This is the smallest part of your waist. Typically, it is located an inch or so above your belly button. Hips Take the tape around the widest part of your hips, across the hip bone. Hollow to Hem Start the tape at the hollow (base of your neck) and measure down to where you want the hem. If your skirt will be full, be sure to measure out at an angle to allow for the fullness. Also, be sure you’ re wearing the same height heel you'll wear on your wedding day. Inside Sleeve Start the tape in your armpit and measure your straight arm to the wrist. Arm Width Relax your arm and measure around the largest part of the upper arm. Shoulder to Shoulder This is the measurement from shoulder blade to shoulder blade. Nape to Waist Measure from the base of the neck in the back to the natural waist. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- GOWN Q&A -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Q: I know I'll lose weight before my wedding. Should I order my gown in a smaller size? A: Tempting, but ultimately not a good idea. With all the tension that goes along with planning a wedding, the added pressure to lose weight can be almost unbearable. Since little can be done to make a smaller gown larger if you don't meet your weight goal, play it safe and order the gown in your current size. Then, if you do take the weight off, you can always have your gown adjusted during the fitting process. Q: Recently, a bridal consultant told me a chiffon gown would be perfect for my winter wedding, but I'd always thought chiffon was only for summer weddings. Who's right? A: Traditionally, fabrics like chiffon, organza and tulle were considered summer wedding gown materials only. But the rules have changed. These days, brides wear a variety of fabrics and styles year-round. Virtually all wedding-gown fabrics and styles are now considered seasonless. Today, the single most important factor you should consider when choosing your gown's material is that you like it! Q: I've heard it's very important to wear the right undergarments with my wedding gown. If this is true, where should I buy my bridal lingerie? A: The right undergarments are critical to making your gown lay right (and they can conceal figure flaws, making your body appear curvier or better toned). Some bridal salons sell their own assortment of lingerie, giving you a chance to try on different styles and sizes to see which ones work best with your dress. If your bridal salon doesn't carry lingerie, your salesperson should be able to direct you to a specialty store that does. You can also call the lingerie department of your favorite store to set up an appointment with a fitter. Unlike your day-to-day lingerie, some of your wedding-day undergarments may need to be custom- fitted, so it's a good idea to shop for lingerie early in the process, and it's essential to bring all bridal undergarments to your final fitting. Q: Are there certain times when it's more appropriate to wear a white gown than ivory, or vice versa? What about pastel gowns? A: While white is considered the most traditional color for a wedding gown, ivory has long been accepted as an appropriate choice for even very formal weddings. Gowns in pastel tones, ranging from pink to peach to ice blue, are also gaining in popularity. What's most important is not your dress's color but that its style matches the formality of your wedding. Q: Is there any rule about who pays for the bride's gown? A: There is no hard-and-fast rule about who assumes responsibility for this cost, although traditionally the bride's family did. These days, a bride may pay for the gown herself, she and her fiance might share the cost or she might split the expense with her parents. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- FITTING COUNTDOWN Now that you've finally found your dream dress, you'll spend the next several months having it customized to fit. Through alterations, your wedding gown will soon become a one-of-a-kind treasure. Follow this timetable to ensure that the entire shopping and buying process runs smoothly. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 6 TO 9 MONTHS Choose a dress based on the formality of your wedding, the season and the time of day it will take place. Order your dress at least six months before your wedding. Be prepared to make a down payment of 50% (preferably on your credit card, because this gives you more control over payment if there's a breach of contract). Ask about special policies, extra alteration fees, cancellation rules, free services and the date your balance is due. Confirm the delivery date of your dress. Ask about the fittings policy: how many you'll need to attend, what to bring, how long each will last. 3 TO 6 MONTHS Your dress should arrive three to four months after the order is placed. Attend your first fitting. Bring an appropriate bra and heels similar in height to the ones you'll wear with your dress, and style your hair similar to the way you'll wear it at your wedding. Alert the fitter to any discomfort so she can make alterations. Order your headpiece. Order your wedding shoes. 1 MONTH Attend a second fitting, when final alterations will usually be made. Bring your bridal shoes so the hem can be adjusted, as well as your headpiece so any changes can be made. If you plan to hire the fitter to help you get dressed and bustle your train on your wedding day, now is a good time to book her (most fitters will provide this service for a small additional charge). 2 WEEKS Attend a final fitting. Your mother or maid of honor should be present to learn how to bustle your dress and secure your headpiece if you won't be hiring someone to help. 1 WEEK Pick up your dress as close to your wedding day as possible to ensure freshness and prevent it from wrinkling. Once home, suspend your dress from a rod (do not lean it against any walls or doors) while it's still in its bag. Unzip the bag slightly to prevent mustiness. On your wedding day, remove your dress from its bag and lay it on a clean sheet of cotton or plastic until you are ready to get dressed. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- COORDINATING YOUR WEDDING PARTY From patterns to colors to headpieces to accessories, you'll want to find a wedding-party look that complements your own. For bridesmaids, you might choose a dress that is similar in cut or style to your own. For groomsmen, pick formalwear similar in style to the groom's but with different accents (the groom should stand out). Of course, your selections will be based on the formality, time and location of your wedding. Use these guidelines to make your decision easier, and record important information on the worksheet that follows. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- DAYTIME WEDDINGS Ultra-formal Bridesmaids - Long dresses and shoes to match. Gloves and jeweled combs or other hair accessories are optional. Groomsmen - (Traditional) A cutaway suit with striped trousers and a wing-collar shirt with vest and tie or cravat. (Contemporary) A long or short contoured tuxedo with formal trousers and a wing- collar shirt. Formal Bridesmaids - Long or short dresses and shoes to match. Gloves and jeweled combs or other hair accessories are optional. Groomsmen - (Traditional) A stroller, waistcoat, striped trousers, white shirt and striped tie. (Contemporary) A formal tuxedo, dress shirt, bow or four-in-hand tie, and vest or cummerbund. Semi-formal Bridesmaids - Long or short dresses and shoes to match. Gloves and jeweled combs or other hair accessories are optional. Groomsmen - (Traditional) A suit with a white, colored or striped shirt and four-in-hand tie. (Contemporary) Dinner jacket or formal suit, dress shirt, bow or four-in-hand tie, and vest or cummerbund. Informal Bridesmaids - Maid of honor is dressed in a short dress or suit, similar in style to the bride's. Groomsmen - (Traditional) A suit with a white, colored or striped shirt and four-in-hand tie. (Contemporary) Dinner jacket or formal suit, dress shirt, bow or four-in-hand tie, and vest. EVENING WEDDINGS Ultra-formal Bridesmaids - Long dresses and shoes to match. Gloves and jeweled combs or other hair accessories are optional. Groomsmen - (Traditional) Full-dress tailcoat, matching trousers, white waistcoat, white bow tie and a wing-collar shirt. (Contemporary) A long or short contoured tuxedo with formal trousers and wing- collar shirt. Formal Bridesmaids - Long or tea-length dresses and shoes to match. Gloves and jeweled combs or other hair accessories are optional. Groomsmen - (Traditional) A stroller, waistcoat, striped trousers, white shirt and striped tie. (Contemporary) A formal tuxedo, dress shirt, bow or four-in-hand tie, and vest or cummerbund. Semi-formal Bridesmaids - Floor, tea-length or shorter dresses and shoes to match. Gloves and jeweled combs or other hair accessories are optional. Groomsmen - (Traditional) White or colored suit, striped shirt and four-in-hand tie. (Contemporary) Dinner jacket or formal suit, dress shirt, bow or four-in-hand tie, and vest or cummerbund. Informal Bridesmaids - Maid of honor is dressed in a short dress or suit, similar in style to the bride's. Groomsmen - (Traditional) A suit with a white, colored or striped shirt, and four-in-hand tie. (Contemporary) Dinner jacket or formal suit, dress shirt, bow or four-in-hand tie, and vest or cummerbund. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- THE BIG DAY Finally, the day you've waiting for has arrived! Your plans are set, everything is in place, and all you have to do is get to the ceremony site on time. Here's a timetable for transforming yourself into a beautiful bride. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Pack a beauty emergency kit beforehand for all those unexpected incidents that are bound to occur. Hint: Include safety pins, needles, thread to match your gown, scissor, Instant Krazy Glue, nail polish, bobby pins, hairspray, deodorant, tissues, pantyhose and makeup. Give the kit to your maid of honor or your mother to hold for you. Style your hair or set your hairdresser appointment no later than four hours before the ceremony. Hint: Ask your hairdresser if she will come to your house so you won't lose time traveling. Paint your nails no later than four hours before the ceremony. Hint: Paint the first coat the night before so you only need to wait for one coat to dry, or get a manicure the day before. Allow a half hour to apply your makeup before dressing. Hint: Wash your hands before touching your dress. Begin to put on your dress 1 1/2 hours before the ceremony (two hours before if you're having photographs taken first). Hint: The best tactic for putting on your gown is to position the petticoat under your dress, then step into both. After you are dressed, put on your accessories (all at the same time so nothing is forgotten). Hint: Get everything together the night before to save time. Secure your headpiece once you are fully dressed. Hint: Give your hair a final spritz of hairspray after the headpiece is in place. When you hear the processional start, take a deep breath before you begin walking down the aisle. Hint: Counting to the beat as you take your first step will keep your nerves in check and your steps in order. Once at the reception, ask someone to assist you in bustling you gown. Hint: Assign a person to help you ahead of time, and have her attend your final fitting to learn how to bustle it properly. Once bustled, your dress should be at least one inch from the ground, enabling you to walk and dance freely. Relax and enjoy yourself for the rest of the day-it is a day you will never forget! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- HOW TO PRESERVE YOUR GOWN You should have your gown properly preserved as soon as possible after the big day has passed. Then, years from now, you'll be able to take it out without fear of discovering stains or fade spots- and possibly pass it on to your daughter for her wedding. To ensure that your dress stays as crisp and clean as the day you wore it down the aisle, follow these guidelines. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 1. Have your gown professionally cleaned. Even if your dress looks perfectly spotless after the wedding, it's important to have it professionally cleaned, since invisible substances like perspiration or oil could turn into stains later on. Look for a professional who specializes in wedding gowns. Make sure he cleans the gown using stain pretreatments, fresh dry-cleaning fluid and a mesh bag for protection. The gown should also be hand-pressed afterward. Most bridal fabrics can be safely dry-cleaned, but some will need to be professionally hand-washed. When you bring your gown to the cleaner, be sure to point out any visible spots to him and identify what caused them, if you can. Examine the hem and train of your dress for spots first, since they're bound to be the most soiled parts, and be sure to mend any tears and reinforce loose attachments beforehand. 2. Store your gown properly. Keep your gown in a cool, dry area, such as under your bed or at the top of your linen closet (the temperature changes are too extreme to store it in an attic or basement), to protect it from light, dust and insects that might damage the fabric. If you have your gown cleaned, preserved, and boxed professionally, simply store the box away. If you're packing the gown yourself, first remove the plastic cleaner's bag, then line the container you will use with a fresh, white bedsheet to keep the gown from touching the sides of the container directly. Remove fabric-covered metal buttons, metal fasteners, pins, and sponge or foam shoulder pads ahead of time, and store them separately, since they deteriorate with time. Fold the gown as little as possible, rounding out poufed sleeves and other shaped areas with crumpled up, acid-free tissue paper, and lay tissue in the gown's folds to keep them from setting. Finally, cover the dress with another white sheet, pack it in a white-cloth garment bag, and store. 3. Check up on your gown. To make sure there's no discoloration, mildew or pest infestation, peek at your gown a couple times a year. If you do find a problem, contact your dry cleaner or bridal salon for advice. |

















































































